FEBRUARY • CHAPTER 2
THE PEOPLE WHO SHAPED YOU

Reflect on the people whose shoulders have carried you, the profound influence of individuals who have left an indelible mark on your life's journey. From mentors offering guiding wisdom to cherished friends who shared both joy and sorrow, this chapter invites you to share anecdotes, lessons, and pivotal moments that define the deep connections and relationships that have shaped your mosaic.

Here are your questions to build this month’s mosaic. You can use this section as a chapter in your memoir, or as a stand-alone collection of the people who shaped you. Answer as few or as many questions as you like to build your story. Each answer will be an entry in your memoir. There are 29 questions, one for each day of the month for those of you who like to make this a daily journaling practice.

Who was the first mentor or role model in your life, and what valuable lessons did they teach you?

1. Who was the first mentor or role model in your life, and what valuable lessons did they teach you?

2. Reflect on a friendship that has withstood the test of time. What qualities in that friend have shaped your own character?

3. Share a memory of a teacher who made a significant impact on your education. How did they inspire and guide you?

4. Who in your life has been a constant source of encouragement during challenging times? Share a specific instance that stands out.

5. Discuss a mentor who helped you navigate a crucial decision in your life. What advice did they offer, and how did it influence your choice?

6. Reflect on a boss or colleague who challenged you to grow both personally and professionally. How did their influence shape your career trajectory?

7. Share a story about a friend who introduced you to a new hobby or interest. How did that shared passion deepen your friendship?

8. Who is the family member that has been a pillar of support throughout your life? How have they impacted your sense of security and belonging?

9. Discuss a friendship that began unexpectedly but blossomed into a meaningful connection. What factors contributed to the bond?

10. Reflect on a mentor who taught you valuable life skills beyond the professional realm. How did those skills prove beneficial in different aspects of your life?

11. Share a memory of a friend who was there for you during a significant life event. How did their presence make a difference?

12. Discuss a mentor who challenged your perspectives and beliefs. How did this experience contribute to your personal growth?

13. Who in your life has been a consistent source of laughter and joy? Share a humorous anecdote that encapsulates your bond.

14. Reflect on a teacher or mentor who encouraged you to pursue a passion. How did their support influence your sense of purpose?

15. Share a story about a friend who provided unwavering support during a difficult time. How did their presence make a lasting impact on your life?

16. Discuss a mentor who taught you the importance of resilience in the face of adversity. How did their lessons shape your approach to challenges?

17. Who is the friend or mentor with whom you've shared your dreams and aspirations? How did their encouragement fuel your ambitions?

18. Reflect on a colleague who taught you valuable lessons about teamwork and collaboration. How did these lessons translate into other areas of your life?

19. Share a memory of a friend who introduced you to a transformative book or piece of art. How did it leave a lasting impression on you?

20. Discuss a mentor who helped you navigate a period of self-discovery. How did their guidance contribute to your understanding of yourself?

21. Who in your life has been a calming presence during times of chaos? Share a specific instance where their support made a difference.

22. Reflect on a friendship that evolved through shared experiences and milestones. How has the depth of your connection grown over time?

23. Discuss a mentor who emphasized the importance of empathy and compassion. How have these values influenced your relationships with others?

24. Share a memory of a friend who challenged you to step outside your comfort zone. How did this experience broaden your horizons?

25. Who in your life has been a source of wisdom and guidance during major life transitions? Share a specific instance where their advice proved invaluable.

26. Discuss a mentor who ignited a passion for lifelong learning. How has this love for learning enriched your personal and professional endeavors?

27. Reflect on a friendship that has weathered disagreements and challenges. What lessons have you learned about resilience and understanding in relationships?

28. Share a story about a mentor who instilled a sense of accountability and responsibility in your life. How did these values shape your decision-making?

29. Discuss a friend who celebrated your successes and supported you during setbacks. How did their unwavering loyalty impact your journey?